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Ravi Mittal |594 Answers |Ask -Follow

Dating, Relationships Expert - Answered on May 06, 2025

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Question by Robin on May 05, 2025

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I like girl from my previous office I send her Instagram request to follow her but she is keeping it pending

Ans: Dear Robin,
If she keeps it pending, there are two likely scenarios- one, she didn’t see it. Two, she doesn’t want to accept your request. Please see for a few more days and then if she doesn’t accept it still, please understand that she isn’t interested.

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आप नीचे ऐसेही प्रश्न और उत्तर देखना पसंद कर सकते हैं

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Dating, Relationships Expert - Answered on Oct 15, 2024

Asked by Anonymous - Oct 14, 2024

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in Uni. a girl have feelings for me and i also have feelings for him, are feelings are strong, she try to caught my attention for long and i ignore her due to some reasons, than she went in relationship with other guy but still looks at me with hope and gives me green signal, when i purpose and apologize she took one whole day to reply and said no, and block me, and than she gives the mix signal like getting nervous infront of me, than our education program cam to end, and in farewell she show interest, and smile and try to maintain the eye contact which i broke twice, than in farewell she made glimpse on me and when she conform that i am looking at him in farewell she dancing in farewell like nothing matters for him, next day during last exam i am waiting for him outside the exam hall, her friend came and in signal me to move from there, after that we parted because our program have ended, and in confession group i apologize to her and said i will approach her after a year when i sort mu all the issues, but she don't reply instead she start mirroring insta bio, put same things and quote in her bio which i had put despite the fact i said him that i will approach her after a year, and she keep the bio mirroring, i send her following request which she don't accept and keep the bio mirroring, what should i do, I have some disease from which i suffering and i don't want her to suffer with me, but i am also recovering very fast that's why i told her to wait for me for 1 year, so that we start our new journey. WHAT SHOULD I DO WAIT FOR HER

Ans: Dear Anonymous,
Either one of two things is happening- you are reading her intentions wrong because so far she has made no verbal confirmation of her interest in you. Or, she is deliberately giving you mixed signals to manipulate you and keep you on the hook. I'd say the first one might be an honest mistake but the second comes very close to a toxic trait. I'd suggest you to be careful in dealing with this person. If she does not directly admit that she is interested in you, do not approach her. Consider her blocking and rejecting you as a final NO, even if it might not be so. Do the right thing, even if she isn't.

If she likes you, let her approach you. If that doesn't happen, focus on moving on. After all, you have not been in a relationship or have deep emotions for her. From what you have said, it seems like you barely know her. You deserve someone who is clear about their feelings for you.
Best Wishes.

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Question by RABI - Oct 17, 2024English

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मैं एक सरकारी संगठन में काम कर रहा हूं और उसी संगठन में एक महिला के साथ लंबे समय से मित्रतापूर्ण संबंध हैं, हम हमेशा एक-दूसरे की जरूरत में खड़े रहते हैं लेकिन आजकल मैं उसकी ओर आकर्षित हो रहा हूं कृपया सलाह दें कि क्या मैं आगे बढ़ सकता हूं या नहीं।

Ans: प्रिय रबी,
सुनिश्चित करें कि वह भी आपके साथ एक ही पृष्ठ पर है। अगर वह इसे केवल दोस्ती के रूप में देखती है और इससे ज़्यादा कुछ नहीं, तो ज़्यादा आगे न बढ़ें और जो आपके पास है उसे खराब न करें। मुझे यकीन है कि आप अपनी बातचीत के माध्यम से जान पाएंगे कि वह दोस्ती के बारे में कैसा महसूस करती है और क्या उसके मन में आपके लिए भावनाएँ हैं।

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Asked by Anonymous - Feb 25, 2025English

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मैं इंजीनियरिंग का प्रथम वर्ष का छात्र हूँ। मैंने 5 साल तक लड़कों के स्कूल में पढ़ाई की है, जिसकी वजह से मुझे लड़कियों से शर्म आती है। मेरी क्लास में एक लड़की है, जिस पर मेरा क्रश है। करीब 2 महीने पहले मैंने उसे फॉलो रिक्वेस्ट भेजी थी, लेकिन उसने डिलीट कर दी। वह लड़कों से बात करने से बचती है। लेकिन अब जब हमारा एक टीम प्रोजेक्ट है, तो वह मेरे साथ मेरे ग्रुप में है, इसलिए अब वह मुझसे बात करती है। साथ ही, अब तक उसने हमारी क्लास के किसी भी लड़के की फॉलो रिक्वेस्ट स्वीकार नहीं की है। जब भी मुझे पढ़ाई में मदद की ज़रूरत होती है, तो वह मेरी ईमानदारी से मदद करती है। मैं उसे एक दोस्त से ज़्यादा देखना चाहता हूँ। मुझे क्या करना चाहिए? क्या मुझे अब उसे फॉलो रिक्वेस्ट भेजनी चाहिए?

Ans: प्रिय अनाम,
मुझे पता है कि ये रोमांचक साल हैं, और इस उम्र में, आप लोगों के प्रति आकर्षित होने के लिए बाध्य हैं। हालाँकि, छोटी उम्र से ही सीमाओं और सहमति का अर्थ समझना भी महत्वपूर्ण है। अगर उसने आपका अनुरोध हटा दिया है, तो इसका केवल एक ही मतलब है- वह आपको अपने आंतरिक घेरे में आने के लिए तैयार नहीं है। कुछ लोग अपने सोशल मीडिया के बारे में काफी निजी होते हैं। अगर वह चाहती कि आप इसका हिस्सा बनें, तो वह आपको खुद ही जोड़ लेगी। वह एक निजी व्यक्ति की तरह लगती है जो खुद को रखना पसंद करती है। मैं आपको उसकी सीमाओं का सम्मान करने की सलाह दूंगा। एक दोस्त की तरह उससे बात करें। अगर उससे ज़्यादा कुछ होना है, तो यह स्वाभाविक रूप से होगा। इसे ज़्यादा ज़ोर न दें।

उम्मीद है कि यह मदद करेगा।

नवीनतम प्रश्न

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Career Expert - Answered on May 31, 2025

Asked by Anonymous - May 31, 2025

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Dear Dr. Natarajan, I am a software engineer working at a mid-sized IT services company in Bengaluru. I graduated two years ago and have been primarily working on legacy systems, maintaining existing codebases. While I've learned a lot about debugging and understanding complex systems, I feel my skills might be becoming outdated. I'm keen to move into cutting-edge areas like Artificial Intelligence and Machine Learning, but I'm unsure how to bridge this gap. The job market here is highly competitive, and most AI/ML roles seem to require significant project experience or advanced degrees, which I don't have. I'm thinking about pursuing a Master's degree, but I'm also worried about the financial burden and the time commitment. My main concern is, how can someone like me, with a solid foundational engineering background but limited exposure to advanced technologies, effectively reskill or upskill to leverage the immense opportunities in AI? What specific learning paths, online courses, or personal projects would you recommend to make myself attractive to companies hiring for AI roles, without necessarily going back to university full-time? I want to ensure my career growth aligns with future industry demands.

Ans: You dont have to do a Masters to acquire Skills. Coursera Skillsoft and even the Government's Future Skills Prime can give you good learning options.

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Career Expert - Answered on May 31, 2025

Asked by Anonymous - May 31, 2025

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Dr. Natarajan, As a marketing manager in a fast-moving consumer goods (FMCG) company in Mumbai, I've seen firsthand how quickly the digital landscape is evolving. We're constantly bombarded with new tools, platforms, and strategies, and frankly, it's a bit overwhelming. My career aspiration is to eventually lead a marketing division, but I worry about staying relevant in this hyper-digital age. Specifically, I'm curious about the intersection of marketing and AI. How do you see AI transforming traditional marketing roles in the next 5-10 years? Will AI primarily automate repetitive tasks, or will it create entirely new strategic roles that require a different set of skills? More importantly, how can I, as a marketing professional, leverage AI tools and data analytics to gain a competitive edge and drive better results for my company? What specific skills should I focus on developing to ensure I'm not just keeping pace, but truly leading in this evolving environment?

Ans: Do courses on Digital Marketing, SEO and AI in Marketing and Sales. It will give you cutting edge skills.

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Asked by Anonymous - May 30, 2025

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Kl university btech in cse is better or nitte minakshi banglore cse btech

Ans: Choosing between KL University (KLU) CSE and Nitte Meenakshi Bangalore (NMIT) CSE hinges on institutional strengths and career goals. KLU (NAAC A++, NIRF #35 Engineering) offers robust industry collaborations (Cisco, IBM, Amazon) and certifications (AWS, Google), with a curriculum emphasizing IoT, AI, and cloud computing. Its 2024 placements reported a 75 LPA peak and 11 LPA average, supported by advanced labs and a 100-acre campus. NMIT (NAAC A+, NIRF #101-150 Engineering) provides strong regional industry ties (TCS, Infosys) and specializations like AI/Data Science, with a 47 LPA highest package and 6-7 LPA average. While NMIT’s Bangalore location offers metro exposure, KLU’s global partnerships and higher accreditation ensure broader tech integration. Prioritize KLU for cutting-edge infrastructure and industry-aligned training, or NMIT for Bangalore’s ecosystem and cost-effectiveness. All the BEST for your Admission & a Prosperous Future!

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Career Expert - Answered on May 31, 2025

Asked by Anonymous - May 31, 2025

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Respected Dr. Natarajan, I have been running a small garment export unit in Tirupur for the last 10 years, started by my father. We specialize in knitted apparel. Business was good, but lately, global competition from countries like Bangladesh and Vietnam has become very tough. Also, buyers are demanding faster delivery and more sustainable practices. I want to grow my business, maybe even diversify into new product lines or reach new markets. My question is, how can a small business like mine, with limited capital and resources, effectively compete with larger players and adapt to these changing demands? What are some innovative strategies for growth that I can explore, perhaps leveraging technology, but without making huge investments that I cannot afford? I am looking for practical advice on how to sustain and expand my family business in this challenging environment.

Ans: Identify new products and do aggressive marketing

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Question by Pratima - May 30, 2025

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How is dayanand sagar for cse student

Ans: Pratima, Dayananda Sagar College of Engineering (DSCE) offers a robust CSE program accredited by NAAC (A+) and NBA, with industry-aligned curricula developed in partnership with TCS and NVIDIA labs. The program emphasizes AI/ML, Data Science, and IoT, supported by modern labs, research centers, and collaborations with firms like Microsoft and IBM. Placements are consistent, with 67–90% of CSE students placed annually in companies like Amazon, Accenture, and Bosch, though infrastructure limitations (small classrooms, inconsistent Wi-Fi) and a traditional exam schedule are noted drawbacks. Faculty are experienced, fostering analytical and technical skills through hands-on projects and multidisciplinary research. The campus features eco-friendly infrastructure, a central library, and innovation hubs, but hostel food quality receives criticism. While newer VIT campuses offer broader recruiter access, DSCE’s autonomous status, strong regional industry ties, and focus on ethical, innovation-driven education make it a viable choice for CSE aspirants prioritizing skill development over metropolitan exposure. All the BEST for your Admission & a Prosperous Future!

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Career Expert - Answered on May 31, 2025

Asked by Anonymous - May 31, 2025

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I am working as Anganwadi worker in my village in Bihar. I am 42 years old. My education is not much, only 10th pass. But I want to do something more, something for my village women and children. I see many problems here no good health, no good education for girls, no work for women. I hear about social entrepreneurship. This means doing business for good, not just for money. But I don't know where to start. I have no money. I have no big office. I only have my heart and my willingness to help. Can a woman like me, from a small village, with little education, become a social entrepreneur? How do I start? What kind of small things can I do to make difference and also earn little bit for my family? I don't want to leave my village. I want to do something here itself. Please give me some simple way, easy to understand.

Ans: Your English is fantastic and you are clearly very ambitious. You can definitely become a social entrepreneur.

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Career Expert - Answered on May 31, 2025

Asked by Anonymous - May 31, 2025

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I'm a senior IT architect with over two decades of experience, predominantly in enterprise software solutions and infrastructure management. While I've witnessed countless technological shifts, the current pace of AI adoption feels different. I'm seeing younger colleagues quickly pick up AI/ML skills and get involved in new projects, while I'm still working on core systems that, though critical, aren't perceived as "future-forward." My concern is, how do I, as an experienced professional in my 50s, ensure my relevance and continued career growth in an AI-dominated future? Is it necessary to retrain completely in AI, or are there ways to leverage my existing deep architectural knowledge and blend it with emerging AI capabilities? What specific leadership roles will emerge that value both traditional enterprise experience and an understanding of AI's implications? I want to ensure my extensive experience doesn't become a liability but rather an asset in this evolving landscape.

Ans: Keep learning my friend. I am in my sixties and keep my knowledge on contemporary technologies and philosophies fresh

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Question by Praveena - May 30, 2025

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Hi Sir, I am from Bangalore. Which is better - Manipal Bangalore CSE, VIT-AP CSE, Amrita Bangalore CSE or RV University CSE?

Ans: Praveena, Considering your options—Manipal University Bangalore, VIT-AP (Amaravati), Amrita Vishwa Vidyapeetham Bangalore, and RV University Bangalore—each institution offers unique strengths in their Computer Science programs.

Manipal University Bangalore is renowned for its established reputation, modern infrastructure, and industry-aligned curriculum. Its strong alumni network and emphasis on research provide students with ample opportunities for growth. However, the campus is located in Yelahanka, which is relatively distant from Bangalore's central tech hubs.

VIT-AP offers a flexible academic structure with its Fully Flexible Credit System (FFCS) and Design Your Own Degree (DYOD) programs, allowing students to tailor their learning paths. While the university boasts modern facilities and a growing reputation, its location in Amaravati might limit immediate exposure to Bangalore's tech ecosystem.
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Amrita Vishwa Vidyapeetham Bangalore stands out for its rigorous academic environment and strong research focus. The institution emphasizes discipline and holistic education, which can be beneficial for students seeking a structured learning experience. Its Bangalore campus provides proximity to numerous tech companies, facilitating internships and industry interactions.
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RV University Bangalore is a newer entrant but has quickly gained attention for its innovative curriculum that integrates interdisciplinary studies, hands-on learning, and global collaborations. Located in the heart of Bangalore, it offers students direct access to the city's vibrant tech industry. However, as a relatively new institution, its long-term placement records are still evolving.

Recommendation: If proximity to Bangalore's tech industry and a modern, interdisciplinary curriculum are priorities, RV University Bangalore is a compelling choice. For a well-established institution with a strong academic reputation, Manipal University Bangalore is advisable (but might not be suitable for some students due to some non-academic factors). If a disciplined environment with a focus on research appeals to you, Amrita Vishwa Vidyapeetham Bangalore is suitable. VIT-AP is ideal for those seeking a customizable academic experience, though its location may be a consideration. Suggested Order of Preference: RVU (fees might be on higher side), follwed by Amrita-Bengaluru. All the BEST for your Admission & a Prosperous Future!

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Asked by Anonymous - May 31, 2025

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With a cutoff of 171 in tnea will i get ece branch in main campus ?

Ans: Hello dear.
Chances are there. Keep hopes alive.
Best of luck to you.
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Question by Rahul - May 31, 2025

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Hello Sir, My daughter has secured 1250 rank in PES Bangalore (JEE Rank list), for which counselling is on June 7th, what branch can she get in RR campus. Can she get CSE or CS+AIML branch there? please guide us a bit.

Ans: Hello Rahul
Chances are moderate for CSE/CS+AIML. Please explore more options and keep close eye on counseling process.
Best of luck to you.
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