I marriage on 2012 have two baby kids but my wife is staying in village and affair with her friend she not with me since 7 years. She always ask money she not love me and am from orphanage by birth now I need a women in life to share my feelings and love and all.

Ans: Dear Suresh,
I have very little information from you on why you feel that your wife does not understand your feelings.
Let us assume: that is takes two hands to clap...
So,
1. If and when, there is a difference of opinion, instead of feeling lost that she does not understand your feelings, can you instead tell her: I feel unheard instead of you don't understand me at all.
2. Do spend time hearing her as well as she could just be complaining in her way through pushing you back and not wanting to hear you

Try this and like I always say: It takes love, commitment, trust and a lot of understanding to grow a relationship. And it takes only one assumption to break a relationship.

All the best!

Ans: Dear Anonymous,
Without wife, no sex, okay! But, no woman will come into your life only for sex...So, if you are looking at a lady friend, please understand that she is not an object of your lust...If you can treat that person with respect for who she is, and welcome her into your life as a companion, there will be a physical attraction that will follow...so, first please rework in your mind that the lady friend will also want your emotional support and not just be a sex partner to you! If you can do this, only then go around looking for a companion...

All the best!

Ans: Dear Abdul,
This platform clearly is for people who need guidance on challenges that they are facing in their lives and NOT for finding men/women to satisfy their needs.
If you want guidance with the challenge that you are facing, then please rephrase your question and re-post it please.

Of course, loneliness is a state of mind...if you do feel it, do encourage yourself to spend time with family, friends and most importantly your wife...try and improve the quality of life with your wife and this may help your intimacy as well.

All the best!

Ans: Ashok Ji,
First, it's important to acknowledge your feelings and needs. Losing a spouse is incredibly difficult, and it's a positive step that you're looking to find companionship again. Your desire for a life partner who can share your lifestyle and provide mutual support is completely understandable.

To start this journey, consider what qualities and values are most important to you in a partner. Reflecting on your past relationship experiences can help you identify what worked well and what you might want to avoid this time around. Understanding your own needs and preferences will guide you in finding someone who is truly compatible with you.

Given your professional standing and lifestyle, you may want to explore avenues where you can meet like-minded individuals. Networking within your social and professional circles can be a good start. Friends and colleagues might know someone who is also seeking companionship.

Online platforms specifically designed for senior dating could also be helpful. These sites allow you to specify your preferences, such as looking for a partner without children, and can connect you with potential matches who share similar interests and values.

Another option is engaging in social activities, clubs, or groups that align with your interests. Whether it's a hobby, a sport, or a community service group, participating in these activities can naturally lead to meeting new people who share your passions.

When you meet someone who seems like a potential match, take the time to build a genuine connection. Open and honest communication is key. Share your thoughts, feelings, and expectations for the future, and encourage your partner to do the same. Building a strong emotional bond and mutual understanding will lay a solid foundation for a lasting relationship.

Lastly, be patient with yourself and the process. Finding the right person can take time, but maintaining a positive outlook and being open to new experiences will make the journey more enjoyable.

If you feel comfortable, seeking guidance from a relationship coach or counselor could also provide personalized support and advice as you navigate this new chapter in your life.